Sunday, June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day!!!


My abah...Rusli Nordin...we all love you abah!!!

Happy Father's Day to all the fathers in the world!!! I would like to wish for all the happiness to my father and hoping he will still live healthy and stronger for the years to come!

In our family, we don't have any specific tradition on celebrating any events whether comes on birthday, pass exams or celebrating other special events. But, if we able to gather all of us, we would go out and eat, or we would cook something at home or watch any movie together...hmmm...mostly at home.

I believe on always "togetherness" concept and that's why I'm so much attach with my family. If there is any vacation or trip either around KL, JB or other places, mesti akan start calling semua orang free tak nak pegi sama-sama.

And, the couple of weeks during trimester break, I really don't care to take a really long leave to spend my time with my family. Sometimes, some people felt strange...anak beranak nih memang macam belangkas, pergi holiday je ke mana-mana mesti ada je semua...who cares...we're really happy together.

So, sadly this week, I couldn't go home either Puchong or JB due to my master class. So, I thought of taking leave on this Friday to go home. Sometimes, I felt quite lonely in Malacca and I don't know why. Do I need to start a family now? Hahaha....owh no not now...there is important mission that I need to accomplish first before I settle down with a family. But, when come that special day, I'd promised to myself, I will truely devoted my life as a wife and mother for my future kids. Haihhh...belum apa-apa dah berangan. I don't think I would have any difficulties on raising a family due as an eldest sister, I've been responsible for many things on taking care of my siblings when my parents were away. Just, to find that Mr. Perfect for myself is not kinda of easy job. Hmmm....can we talk on something else?

Alright, back to our main topic, I would like to share some info on the history of the creation on father's and mother's day. Here is what I get:

It would be interesting to know how Father's Day came into practice and celebrated worldwide with an equal sincerity and respect as any other significant holidays. Here's a short history on the holiday, and meaning of the different colors of roses to be worn that Day. You may even refer the page to others to share the information by clicking on the link given below.

About 4,000 years ago a young boy named Elmusu wished his Babylonian father good health and a long life by carving a Father's Day message on a card made out of clay. No one knows what happened to Elmesu or his father, but the tradition of having a special day honoring fathers has continued through the years in countries across the world.

The Countries, where the Catholic Church were of significant influence on the culture of the society, Father's Day is celebrated on St. Joseph's Day (March 19). However, a more secular celebration which is not associated with any religion is followed in recent times to highlight the increased diversity among people from all over the globe coexisting together in one place.

Father's Day is celebrated popularly on 3rd Sunday in June in many parts of the world. The idea for creating a day for children to honor their fathers began in Spokane, Washington. A woman by the name of Sonora Smart Dodd thought of the idea for Father's Day while listening to a Mother's Day sermon in 1909. Having been raised by her father, Henry Jackson Smart, after her mother died, Sonora wanted her father to know how special he was to her. It was her father that made all the parental sacrifices and was, in the eyes of his daughter, a courageous, selfless, and loving man. Sonora's father was born in June, so she chose to hold the first Father's Day celebration in Spokane, Washington on the 19th of June, 1910.

In 1924 President Calvin Coolidge proclaimed the third Sunday in June as Father's Day. President Nixon, in 1972, established a permanent national observance of Father's Day to be held on the third Sunday of June. So Father's Day was born as a token of love and gratitude that a daughter cherishes for her beloved father. Roses are the Father's Day flowers: red to be worn for a living father and white if the father has died.

The Father's Day is celebrated to honor our fathers for everything they do for us through out their life. In 2009, Fathers Day will be celebrated on June 21st. Father's Day 2010 will be celebrated on Sunday, June 20th, 2010. The holiday always falls on the 3rd Sunday of the month of June.
  • In Australia, Father's Day is celebrated on the First Sunday in September.
  • Father's Day in Canada, is celebrated on the third Sunday in June.
  • In the U.K. Father's Day is celebrated on the third Sunday in June.
  • In the United States it is celebrated on the third Sunday in June.
And, some info for the Mother's Day:

The history of Mother's Day is centuries old and goes back to the times of ancient Greeks, who held festivities to honor Rhea, the mother of the gods. The early Christians celebrated the Mother's festival on the fourth Sunday of Lent to honor Mary, the mother of Christ. Interestingly, later on a religious order stretched the holiday to include all mothers, and named it as the Mothering Sunday. The English colonists settled in America discontinued the tradition of Mothering Sunday because of lack of time. In 1872 Julia Ward Howe organized a day for mothers dedicated to peace. It is a landmark in the history of Mother's Day.

In 1907, Anna M. Jarvis (1864-1948), a Philadelphia schoolteacher, began a movement to set up a national Mother's Day in honor of her mother, Ann Maria Reeves Jarvis. She solicited the help of hundreds of legislators and prominent businessmen to create a special day to honor mothers. The first Mother's Day observance was a church service honoring Anna's mother. Anna handed out her mother's favorite flowers, the white incarnations, on the occasion as they represent sweetness, purity, and patience. Anna's hard work finally paid off in the year 1914, when President Woodrow Wilson proclaimed the second Sunday in May as a national holiday in honor of mothers.

Slowly and gradually the Mother's day became very popular and gift giving activity increased. All this commercialization of the Mother's day infuriated Anna as she believed that the day's sentiment was being sacrificed at the expense of greed and profit.

Regardless of Jarvis's worries, Mother's Day has flourished in the United States. Actually, the second Sunday of May has become the most popular day of the year. Although Anna may not be with us but the Mother's day lives on and has spread to various countries of the world. Many countries throughout the world celebrate Mother's Day at various times during the year, but some such as Denmark, Finland, Italy, Turkey, Australia, and Belgium also celebrate Mother's Day on the second Sunday of May.

Mothering Sunday
The early Christians in England celebrated the Mother's festival on the fourth Sunday of Lent (the 40 day period leading up to Easter) to honor Mary, the mother of Christ. Interestingly, later on a religious order stretched the holiday to include all mothers, and named it as the Mothering Sunday. People working out of their homes were expected to return to the "mother" church (the spiritual power that gave them life and protected them from harm). It also became an occasion for family reunions.

Mother's Day is celebrated to honor all mothers and express gratitude for the hardships they bear in bringing up a child. Most countries including US, Australia, Canada and India celebrate Mothers Day on the second Sunday of May. Mothers Day came into being due to the efforts made by Ms Julia Ward Howe and Ms Anna Jarvis. The Resolution for having a dedicated Mother's Day was signed by US President Woodrow Wilson on May 8, 1914. Since then people across the world have been celebrating Mothers Day with joy and devotion.


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